A Gay Therapist's Advice on Avoiding Fights with Your Boyfriend

Alan couldn’t conceive of admitting to his parents that he was gay. “That will never happen,” he told me. “They would die! I can’t do this to them.”

At times, getting through my daily life was difficult for me, but I always talked myself out of having a serious condition. With few outward manifestations, chronic low-grade depression doesn’t always escalate into a crisis (thank God it did for me), therefore it seems as though there is nothing to address. It is an insidious disease in that it exists, but nobody else knows about it other than the sufferer. You feel terrible but, essentially, it’s a non-issue.

5. Men acting out early childhood sexual abuse (also known as homosexual imprinting): These heterosexual men are not homosexually oriented. They do not sexually desire nor are they aroused by other men. However, they compulsively re-enact childhood sexual abuse by male perpetrators through their sexual behaviors with other men. This has nothing to do with their sexual and romantic identities.

You don't have to believe me. Believe the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR). NCLR has given $300,000 to the No on Prop 8 campaign and its Executive Director is on the No on 8 Steering Committee. Their legal analysis, LGBT Legal Issues for School Attorneys, says:

The history, for example, that you learn in school is far more likely to relate to the country where the school is situated than it is to the world at large. The underlying philosophy from your schooling may vary depending on whether it is a government school, a religious school, or one of the alternate schooling systems. Each one has their own barrow to push.

Cry if you might, wail if you must, but refuse to be a pawn to emotion. Become a brave pioneer - a sojourner for which comfort is not your calling, nor appeasement your way. Do not allow complaints and derision to serve as justification. Freedom and fulfillment come not on the easy road. Realize freedom and fulfillment by overcoming fear and acting on faith.

Gaga is all about elevating pop music to an art form. She’s a serious artist and business woman, who’s also concerned about her fans. She embraces her role model status and her femininity. She wants to be a good role model and have a strong connection with her fans. More than that though is her desire to have her fans connect with each other. Therein lies the importance of teen influencers.